The Amalfi Coast is rarely quiet about itself. It doesn’t ask for attention, it just has it.

It comes at us loudly, in photographs, recommendations, itineraries passed between friends who insist you must see everything including every mountain pass.

But there is, of course, another Amalfi.

It only reveals itself once you actually stop moving and start noticing.

Here, the greatest luxury isn’t access or excess.

It’s being left alone.

 

The Performance vs The Reality

 

So what is the real Amalfi?

 

On one hand, the commercial, the “everyone needs to see this”, the “I can’t believe you have been to x,y,z”. It’s filled with day trippers, itinerary lovers and those who cling to their iPhone storage like a sacred scroll.

 

This is the Amalfi of the ports, the Amalfi of the quick tourist trap and stop, the Amalfi that speaks of its ceramics and pastel adornings.

 

Then there is the other Amalfi. The lived Amalfi.

 

Where early swims are just part and parcel of the day. Where shutters are opened to let air in – but never the warmth! It’s going to your favourite, non-tourist bar and ordering that dark, punchy yet creamy espresso and just taking it all in.

 

They co-exist perfectly. Not through chance but through design.

Because in Amalfi, the real treasure is not escaping other people, it’s knowing when to let the silence hit you when others are around.

 

Some it call it, “the Amalfi zone”. The sweet spot of being seen yet left well alone.

 

Staying Put Is the Point

It’s all done by making a simple decision.

“Do I follow everyone else or do I stay still?”

The latter is the key.

Imagine waking up to have breakfast – a sfogliatelle and espresso the only sensible choice, followed by a quick yet leisurely swim, getting back to relax and maybe finally finish that John Le Carre novel you’ve been carrying around for years to then have lunch, a nap and ease into sunset.

Amalfi becomes the backdrop, not the experience.

You can easily feel at home without having the need to see everything.

Villas as Sanctuaries

The villa in this case is the sanctuary.

It’s not monastic, although on the coast it could easily become so.

It’s more of the modern idea of sanctuary. A place where peace resides and the real luxury is being left to it.

Staying somewhere like, Birdsong in Ravello shows you what the Amalfi coast is all about; terraces which act as front-row seats to time passing, a piece of space which encourages solitude without loneliness and feeling part of it without needing to be seen.

Who This Amalfi Is For

The two Amalfi’s co-exist, as previously mentioned.

But if you want to really execute on the art of being left alone then you don’t need to look far. Because on the Amalfi coast, it’s always possible.

You can follow an itinerary and village hop daily, if you wish.

But if you want to experience it, stillness is key. It’s mornings over monuments, where doing less is impressively more, where box ticking is simply not an option.

 

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What is the real point of going to the Amalfi coast? Is it to follow a strict itinerary some influencer told you to or worse, a guide book printed in the late 80s? Or is the point of travelling somewhere so beautiful to take a moment and find stillness?

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